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Comment on How do I stop my friend’s broken heart? by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:40:07 +0000

Maybe he has just fallen in love BLINDLY. The reality of the situation is that you may not beable to save him from getting his heart broken. If you have already told him that she doesnt like him, he has needs to hear it from her. If she really does not like him like you have already told him, then she will definitely convey it to him hopefully when he presents his gift to her.

Comment on Should I give her my passwords? by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:35:23 +0000

Although you have nothing to hide that does not necessarily mean you should give her your password. I dont believe its that serious, if she trusts you. its important both of you have personal space,just because your in a relationship does not mean you have to give every part of yourself, including all your passwords to your partner. Its not wrong if you choose to give her your password though if you want to, but f you have any doubt that it could ruin your relationship its not the best choice. Maybe you should explain the importance of trust to them and that your not looking for their password but that you’ll contiinue to show them that they can trust you,like they have been doing.

Comment on One too many chances?? by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:26:48 +0000

If you want your relationship taken serious by this guy you should let him know the boundaries and beleiefs you have. No one wants their time wasted, if he keeps breaking it on, and off, he could possibly be in the process of talking to another girl relationship wise. The whole game of ” oh you weren’t my girlfriend then, cause we broke up” could come into play and either one of you could end up bruised emotionally. Ultimately you choose whether or not you can put up with this behavior, if its making you unhappy you have the power to change it.

Comment on Back and forth by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:22:28 +0000

If he never wants to have the coversation of whether or not you guys are official more than likely he is hiding something or uneasy. If you dont want let him go completely you dont have to. However, dont limit yourself to one partner, besides if you guys arent sexually active, and unofficial I dont see the problem with exploring your options, that way you can still be friends converse with whom ever without necessarily being in a relationship. But when you do decide to take that further step to ge in a relationship choose someone who wil be real with you at all times, whether its god or bad.

Comment on Why does weight matter? by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 08:14:21 +0000

In my opinion all constructive criticsm is not negative. If he is not saying anything to hurt your feelings, maybe he would like you to work out. Needlessly to say, maybe this could be another chance for you guys both to bond share activites, you could share with him your artistry and you could offer to workout with him to at least show him that you care about what he has to say also and would like to workout with him sometime.

Comment on Back and forth by Beverly Boyd

Beverly Boyd — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 20:01:03 +0000

I dont think you should stay so loyal to the first guy because it seems as though he isnt being serious with you at the moment. If you’re hearing things, confront him about it and if he decides to not answer what you are asking, let it go and move on. There is so much you are going to tae and while he’s having you think something else is going to get old and soon, you are going to want to talk to someone else. I think you should talk to the second guy, just dont give the second guy the wrong impression or lead him on and have him thinking something else because the first guy wasnt what you expected him to be.

Comment on Why does weight matter? by Beverly Boyd

Beverly Boyd — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 19:56:54 +0000

You should NOT change your appearance, nor personality for ANYONE. The next time he makes a comment that makes you feel uncomfortable about your weight inform him on how that makes you feel. Ask him exactly what he meant when he said what he said about your weight. And no need to feel self-concious! ALWAYS think highly of yourself and dont allow anyone to bring you down, especially a boy! But if you feel the need to lose some weight or work out, do it for YOU and YOU only, not for anyone else!

Comment on Uncomfortable Chat by Beverly Boyd

Beverly Boyd — Wed, 22 Feb 2012 19:53:53 +0000

You should inform him on how uncomfortable he makes you feel while being online. The way he acts face to face is the same way he should act while being on face book. Tell him to relax with the sex topic and that you aren’t interested with what he says. He should understand, especially if he likes you as much as you like him.

Comment on Think before you hit “send” by Marius

Marius — Sat, 11 Feb 2012 00:54:25 +0000

Yeah, sexting is dangerous because once the picture is out of your hands, ESPECIALLY in this day and age, you can’t get it back or control who receives it. Also, what a lot of people don’t realize is that sexting can be a crime! If someone of age distributes or receives a picture from someone underage, this can be categorized as child pornography, which can land you in jail. Sexting is a slippery, mistake-prone route to take, it’s best to turn the other way.

Comment on Should I give her my passwords? by Zay

Zay — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 04:53:11 +0000

TRUST IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF A RELATIONSHIP. AND BEING A GUY ITS ALMOST LIKE SOME TIMES GIRLS LOOK FOR US TO LIE OR MESS THINGS UP BASED OFF HER LAST RELATIONSHIP. THAT MAY BE THE CASE AND IT MAY NT.JUST B SURE TO EARN HER TRUST AND KEEP IT AND IF GIVING HER THE PASSWORD MAKE HER TRUST YOU THEN……
GO FOR IT.

Comment on Back and forth by laurenclarke

laurenclarke — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:07:13 +0000

I would say that you should try again to have a conversation again with him about where you stand and if continues to brush it off, tell him that if he doesn’t take this relationship as serious as you do, then you will start dating other guys. If he likes you as much as he says he does, then he will make the commitment. If he doesn’t, then maybe you should start looking at other potential guys.

Comment on Friend gone for good? by nwhite12

nwhite12 — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:31:39 +0000

This is a very sad situation unfortunatly but always know that boys gone come and go but a good friend is going to be there when you havent talked to them in weeks months or even years. You dont have to kiss her butt but when she is ready to come back to you do not say I told you so because you never know what might happen. Just keep on living life and from time to time speak to her or even pick up the phone to call her

Comment on One too many chances?? by nwhite12

nwhite12 — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:28:06 +0000

A guy will only do what you allow him to do. If you stop acting like you need that boy he will realize that you are a gift to him not the other way around. Dont let him get back with you. Make him wait. I understand you might love him but make him work for you, he will have so much more respect for you

Comment on He’s lying! by nwhite12

nwhite12 — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:25:35 +0000

I know exactly how you feel! Sometimes i find myself trying to tell people to stop doing a habit that i know is not good for them but Im learning slowly that you can not help those who are not willing to help themselves. Also do not try and change a person. We feel like we can be a superhero and we end up getting hurt. That boy gone do whatever he wants to do its up to you to either accept him for who he is or move on with your life.

Comment on He’s lying! by Zay

Zay — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:57:12 +0000

YOU SHOULD REALLY TALK TO HIM IN A WAY THAT HE WOULD UNDERSTAND. YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT THE FACT THAT SMOKING IS NOT JUST SOMETHING YOU CAN JUST STOP OVER NIGHT IT TAKES TIME. DURING THAT TIME HE’LL NEED YOUR SUPPORT AS WELL AS THE SUPPORT OF OTHERS. YOU SHOULD ALSO SHOW HIM THAT YOU UNDERSTAND AND THAT YOU WANT HIM TO GET HELP. IN ORDER 4 THIS TO WORK THO, HE MUST REMAIN TRUTHFUL WITH YOU THREW IT ALL. TRUST AND SUPPORT ARE TO MAIN KEYS THAT IT TAKE TO OVER COME SOMETHING SUCH AS SMOKING.

Comment on One too many chances?? by Dekartemus McClain

Dekartemus McClain — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:26:03 +0000

Its vital that you explain to him how he is making you feel. Your boyfriend needs to understand that you have an abundant of love for him but he makes you uncomfortable with his decision making. Let him know what kind of relationship you want to have with him and hopefully everthing works out

Comment on Taking it too far? by Dekartemus McClain

Dekartemus McClain — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:13:21 +0000

Dont give up on what you believe in. your boyfriend needs to understand that sex isnt something your ready to commit to. He needs to respect your decisions and your morals. Let him know how his conversation about sex is making you feel, and let him know that you do love him. HOWEVER you dont have to do anything sex related to show your love to him. I want you to know that nobody has the right to pressure you.

Comment on Talking to the ex by Dekartemus McClain

Dekartemus McClain — Wed, 11 Jan 2012 17:52:44 +0000

Its ok talking to someone that you dated before, however depending on how the relationship ended talking to that person may not be the right thing to do. For example if you left relationship because that was just acting all crazy then you may not want to relive that situation. Also you and your partner should probably talk about if he or she would want you talking to that person. Dont forget to ask why or why not because in a relationship communication is talking and listening

Comment on He’s lying! by UrbanFiasco

UrbanFiasco — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 21:51:46 +0000

Lying can really hurt a relationship, but he wants to please you and himself but always ends up letting his own desire interfere with his health. If you really want him to stop give him some type of punishment, otherwise it will continue. Neverthekess smoking does not stop overnight but if he really lives you he will make a stronger effort to stop .

Comment on He’s lying! by myieshasmith

myieshasmith — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 21:47:35 +0000

You need to explain to him that the lies are hurting you more than the smoking and that he should really stop making broken promises because if he loved you then he wouldn’t continue to lie and let alone smoke. He should trust that you want him to stop for the better good of himself and he should respect what you want. Just sit and talk to him and tell him how u feel!