Not ready for sex, but…

I’m not ready for sex, and my boyfriend is OK with that. But he’s been pressuing me for oral sex. He says it’s not really sex. What should I do?

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3 Responses to “Not ready for sex, but…”

  1. laurenclarke says:

    If you don’t want to have oral sex then he should be understandable about that. There are other ways to show affection than sex, and by the way oral sex is another form of sex. You should have a conversation with him about your feelings on the topic and if you do decide to give him oral sex BE CAREFUL because you can contract an STD from oral sex as well. Be safe and make the best decision for you.

  2. naenae33 says:

    girl dont let him pressure you into doing anything you dont want too do !! keep it a 100% real and tell him how you feel about the sittuation!!!! be honest with him let him know that he has to respect your choice and if oreal sex or reguluar sex is what he wants then why be together if he just wants that:(

  3. trexzeigler says:

    Don’t let him fool you. Oral sex is still sex. You can still contract STDs from oral sex and it can be dangerous. Let him know that you’re not ready. If he really cares about you he will understand.

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